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Dog Farm Stays


2012: A year of renewal?

Monday, January 02, 2012

My friend Deane, who now lives in New York, just emailed declaring the theme for "year two-o-one-two" is “renew”. A year of renewal.  I couldn’t agree more.  I'm sure those caught up in the world's economic woes agree. And same goes for my two new beagles – the two at the back in this snap.  They’ve taken a new lease on life since they arrived at the farm just before Christmas.


 

Peanut and Tigger were my Christmas present.  They’re not puppies, both being nearly 9, and they’re just perfect. Already house trained, there’s no nasty puppy surprises to deal with!  They came to us via the Beagle Club rescue team and they’re just lovely.  Their story was sad though… until they made it to the farm, that is.

Their first owner – whom they clearly adored in a way only dog lovers could appreciate – was diagnosed this past year with terminal cancer.  The two hounds – having grown up together, truly devoted and absolutely in love with each other – were her babies.  Separating them from Audrey after 9 years was heartbreaking; but separating them from each other was inconceivable. 

So when the rescue team couldn’t find a single home to take them both,  what was I to do?  In a family conference our other beagles agreed, and so then there were four.  And arriving at the farm, these house dogs have found renewal in their new life on the farm.  They sniff, they chase, they enjoy being dogs.  It's like they're puppies all over again.

The themes that Deane declares, they always seem to ring true and just “fit” for me.  We flatted together when I first arrived in Sydney – almost 14 years ago now – and Miss Deane knows me well enough to know when an idea will stick. 

When we met, I was running from a failed marriage and a violent ex whose temper only flared with the domestic violence order I filed against him.  Even after I left him, he’d assaulted my friends, stalked me for months, broke into my house.  He had firearms that the Police confiscated, and I was worried he’d get more.  And so in coming to Sydney I was running away, but I was also running towards a future I was determined would be worth the effort. 

I don’t talk about that particular chapter of my life, mostly because it’s already consumed more of my energy than I should have allowed.  Yet in the context of renewal, it’s my own proof that anyone can renew and reinvent.  Anyone.

Those first years in Sydney, living with Miss Deane were good for my soul.  Most New Years Eves, we’d watch the fireworks light up the Sydney Harbour Bridge, and make a declaration from the balcony of our “bachelorette pad”.  The resolutions were big – and year after year we amazed ourselves with what we achieved.

And the move to Sydney proved to be the right one.  After that tough patch, life got good.  My career took off.  I travelled the world, followed my dreams, and learned to live a little.  And life got better than I ever could have wished: I learned to trust again and to take risks.  Meeting "The One", starting my own businesses, buying the farm, raising Master Almost-3… and of course the beagles!  Life really is good.

2012 is my 40th year and it feels like I’m ready again for renewal, more energy, more patience  and more focus on the next chapter of life. 

I’m ready to learn more, love more, live more.

Outcome oriented, I love making resolutions, and then making them reality.  This year is no different and my resolutions are:

  1. Finish the book.  Yes, it’s been on the to-do list for too long and I’m engineering my life to get more thinking and doing time.
  2. Time at the farm with family and friends – and to photograph the animals with my new camera (once I figure out how to use it… doh!).
  3. Dig deeper on the issues of women, work and leadership – and to continue to agitate for more women in leadership in our workplaces and communities.
  4. Work smarter, and with my strengths, to achieve more than ever… but with more sleep and more awareness of my wellbeing too!
  5. Thrive in business, gain another directorship, and build my blog following.

If you’ve set resolutions for yourself, and you’re serious about achieving them, my advice is to make them public.  Declare them – here or anywhere on the world wide web.  Print them off and put them on the back of the toilet door, above the kitchen sink, on your desk at work, or in the car.  Save them onto your iPhone, iPad or your technological device of choice.  And read them every day.

For each of your resolutions, write 3-5 actions that relate to that resolution, which you can tick off as you achieve them, and which are the stepping stones to each of your dreams.  Chunk it down, make them real, make it happen.

So, if it resonates with you, I wish you renewal.  If something else takes your fancy, I hope you make it come true.

And if there’s something you’re planning and would like to share, I’m all ears: post away with your comments.

Happy New Year!
Anita Beasley commented on 03-Jan-2012 11:50 AM
Jen, A GREAT new year's post - not too long, interesting and heart warming, but most of all inspiring enough to make me get off my butt and get my own resolutions down on paper! Thanks for sharing. Anita
The SheEO commented on 03-Jan-2012 11:55 AM
Thanks Anita, and Happy New Year! I hope it's another amazing year for you. And please do write down those resolutions and share them!!
Joanne commented on 03-Jan-2012 03:36 PM
Ok I've written the resolutions AND posted them on Facebook-now just to nominate the steps to achieve them! Thanks for the inspiration! :) I don't normally make New Year's resolutions but actually came up with some I wanted to do this year and thought
I'd write them down to make myself a little more accountable (and to remind myself what I want to do!) Goal 1: Take care of my body One thing I know, my brain always works regardless of what state my body is in. I also know just how much harder it is to do
the things my brain comes up with if my body isn't up to it (too tired, hungover, not healthy, sick, not so fit etc :) So I want to take better care of myself by making sure my body: 1. Gets enough sleep 2. Is fed healthy, organic-where-possible, mostly vegetarian
meals (as I never eat enough vegetables :) minimising sugar, gluten & overly-cooked foods 3. Is exercised & moved regulary 4. Is not hungover Goal 2: Focus Focusing on what is important in my life is something I really want to do this year. I often get distracted
or waste time or not make best use of my time or don't focus or spend time achieving my goals and the things I most want to do. Life is short and I want to make the most of it, whether it be making good use of good weather, getting out in the outdoors, spending
time with people and friends I like most, finding & getting a job I love and developing my blog and business ideas. So choosing what it important and spending time on one of those elements EACH and EVERY day sounds like a good start to combat this.
The SheEO commented on 03-Jan-2012 03:39 PM
good one Joanne... i've been doing the healthy food and low drinking for past couple of months and feel remarkably better for it!!!
Sue commented on 03-Jan-2012 03:44 PM
Hi Jen, Thanks for the insight into what makes you “you”! Sounds like you have a great plan and all the very best with it. I look forward to hearing how it all unfolds. With all good wishes to the farm, the family, the dogs and of course, to you for 2012.
Abbie Allen commented on 17-Jan-2012 09:43 AM
Thanks for sharing! I've only just arrived at my theme for 2012 this morning so it was amazing to then click through and see this post. My theme for 2012 is 'Play A Bigger Game'. It appeared to me of its own accord - I kept hearing or reading the phrase
and it really resonated with me. So this year I am going to take myself out of my comfort zone and take our business to the next level! In a sense 2012 is also are year of renewal for me too, after a very turbulant 2011. Thank you :)
The SheEO commented on 24-Jan-2012 01:55 PM
Hi Abbie thanks for posting your 2012 theme - sounds like you'll have plenty to report back on!!
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